A Soulful Journey

A  man who came to Rabbi Akiva with a question: "If I confess my sins, won't God forgive me anyway?" Rabbi Akiva replied, "Yes, God will forgive you. But the purpose of Yom Kippur is not merely about forgiveness; it's about healing." Through forgiveness of self and other we are healed.

  Ran Abbahu speaks of God having created and destroyed multiple worlds before creating the one we now inhabit (Bereishit Rabbah 3:7). Commenting on this  midrash , Rabbi Joseph Soloveitchik  strikingly observes that “here we have God not only creating, as in the Biblical text, but also recreating, rebuilding after destructions.” Why is this important? Because, Rabbi Soloveitchik suggests, the way God is portrayed here is meant to teach us a profound ethical and spiritual lesson: “As God creates and recreates… so too, should [human beings] be ready to rebuild and reconstruct, even as previous structures collapse.” This is not easy, Soloveitchik admits: “To build initially is difficult, but to rebuild is even more challenging.” Faced with destruction and devastation, we are nevertheless “bidden to start over again with faith and resourcefulness, as God did. … This, then, is what the Torah requires of [human beings]: to act, to create and, when necessary, to recreate, even as did the Div

The disciples of the Baal Shem Tov heard that a certain man was a sage. Some of them were anxious to see and hear his "Torah." The master gave them permission to go, but first they asked him: How will we know that he is a true teacher? The Baal Shem replied: Ask him for advice on how to pray and learn without distraction. If he answers, you will know there is nothing to him.  -Stern,   Day by Day , p.335

  Note to me :   Before Rosh Hashanah it is time to reflect and do an account of the year that has just passed.  What happened this past twelve months?  Have I grown?  I am one year older.  And a bit more forgetful.  So, not to overlook what has happened…. > I remember the day it almost ended.  A car racing by swerved into my lane with no warning. Do not forget the feeling of screeching tires, the racing heart and the sudden realization, “I could have died.” > The doctor appointment when you knew something was askew.  The doctor acknowledged the anomaly.  His face was serious after the EKG. Thoughts immediately went into fearful overdrive….  Later, the heavy sigh that accompanied the news that “I dodged a bullet.” > I watched my body change, saw new lines appear where skin used to be smooth and wondered how I got this old.  Am I not aging gracefully and not full of resentment at slowing down? Own these moments.  Remember how fragile life is and that each day is a gift, like an

  Said Rabbi   Yehoshua ben Hananiah : "I was traveling, and I met with a child at a crossroads. I asked him, 'which way to the city?' and he answered: 'This way is short and long, and this way is long and short.' "I took the 'short and long' way. I soon reached the city but found my approach obstructed by gardens and orchards. So I retraced my steps and said to the child: 'My son, did you not tell me that this is the short way?'  Answered the child: 'Did I not tell you that it is also long?'"     - Talmud , Eruvin 53b There are many shortcuts in life but often they do not lead to the place we wish to go.  Only with time, effort and study can we achieve the heights we dream of.  

  Here’s an interesting take on the preciousness of relationships:   Whenever my husband, Ben, does minor work on the car, he invites our 6-year-old grandson, Jake, to help.   One day Jake’s dad asked him, “What does Grandpa pay you for all that help you give him?”   “Grandpa pays me attention.”   Look into the eyes of someone you care about. They will tell you what you need to know.