After I became president, I asked my escort to go to a restaurant for lunch. We sat down and each of us asked what we wanted. On the front table, there was a man waiting to be served. When he was served, I said to one of my soldiers: go and ask that gentleman to join us. The soldier went and conveyed my invitation to him. The man got up, took his plate and sat down right next to me. While he ate his hands trembled constantly and he did not lift his head from his food. When we finished, he said goodbye without looking at me, I shook his hand and he left. The soldier told me: Madiba that man must have been very ill, seeing as his hands didn't stop shaking while he ate.- Absolutely no! the reason for his trembling is another. Then I told him: That man was the warden of the prison where I stayed. After he tortured me, I screamed and cried asking for some water and he came humiliated me, laughed at me and instead of giving me water, he urinated in my head. He is not sick, he was afraid
Rabbi Israel Spira, the Grand Rabbi of Bluzhov, recalled how one night during the Holocaust he and other Jews imprisoned in a Nazi concentration camp were ordered to try to jump over a large pit. If they fell into the pit, they would be shot immediately. If they managed to jump to the other side, they would live another day,” Rav Yisrael stood next to another man, a companion who was not religiously observant. His companion said, ‘Why are we even trying? We are giving entertainment to the Germans. Let’s lie down and die with dignity.’ Instead, the Rebbe said, ‘Let’s jump to the other side,’ and they did. “The non-observant man asked, ‘How did you do it?’ The Rebbe replied, ‘I was hanging onto the coattails of my father and grandfather and great grandfather.’ The Rebbe asked his friend, ‘How did you do it?’ His reply? ‘I was holding onto you!’” - Rabbi Hammer-Kossoy of Pardes Now is when we hold onto each other.