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A Prayer for Friday Night


We thank You, O God, for our family and for what we mean and bring to one another.  We are grateful for the bonds of loyalty and affection which sustain us and for the capacity to love and to care.

Help us to be modest in our demands of one another, but generous in our giving to each other.  May we never measure how much love or encouragement we offer; may we never count the times we forgive.  Rather, may we always be grateful that we have one another and that we are able to express our love in acts of kindness.

Keep is gentle in our speech.  When we offer words of criticism, may they be chosen with care and spoken softly.  May we waste no opportunity to speak words of sympathy, of appreciation, of praise.

Bless our family with health, happiness, and contentment.  Above all, grant us the wisdom to build a joyous and peaceful home in which Your spirit will always abide.   

Amen.   

 –from Gates of Shabbat, CCAR 1991

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Skyler said…
Beautiful prayer, Rabbi.

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